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Part IV · Rules and Purpose
Chapter 12

Confronting Hypocrisy

Primary Scripture
Matthew 23:1–36
Related passages
Matthew 6:1–18; Mark 7:1–13; Luke 11:37–52

You came here because: I need to confront someone

“…the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness.”
Matthew 23:23

Read the full passage before continuing: Matthew 23:1–36

The Gospel situation

In Matthew 23, Jesus is speaking to His listeners about the scribes and Pharisees. He warns them about religious leaders who “preach, but do not practice” (Matthew 23:3).

He describes leaders who do their deeds “to be seen by others,” seeking public honor and titles. The problem is not simple imperfection, but a deliberate gap between the public expectations they set and their own private practices.

What Jesus did

Jesus uses some of His strongest language, repeatedly saying, “Woe to you.” He criticizes the leaders for tying up heavy burdens for others that they themselves are unwilling to carry.

He employs severe imagery to expose the misalignment. He compares their righteousness to cleaning the outside of a cup while the inside is full of corruption, and to whitewashed tombs that appear beautiful but conceal decay.

Jesus contrasts their leadership with His own. He points out that while they place burdens on others, He washes feet, serves, and carries the cost of the mission Himself, demonstrating that authority is responsibility.

What was at stake

The issue is not minor inconsistency, but leadership built around appearance. This can become structural, where an institution learns to prioritize its public image over its actual mission, celebrating values it privately violates.

Hypocrisy teaches that authority is a privilege that exempts leaders from sacrifice. By contrast, Jesus demonstrates that authority is responsibility, meant to serve the people and purpose entrusted to leadership.

Look inward

Not to tell you what to do — only to turn the story inward.

  • Where is there a gap between what I say I value and what my actual behavior demonstrates?
  • In what areas do I ask others to carry burdens I avoid?
  • Have I become more interested in being seen as aligned with the mission than in actually being aligned?

Pray and consider

Take a moment to pray over what this story may be revealing about your own leadership. Ask the Holy Spirit for clarity, humility, and the willingness to see what you may be overlooking.

Ask God to show you where your leadership might be more concerned with appearance than with reality.

Carry it forward

Where is there a gap between what you or your organization say you value and what your actual behavior demonstrates?

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Reflect Personally

Take a few minutes to consider where this Gospel story may intersect with your own leadership, responsibilities, relationships, or decisions.

Reflect Personally